450g/1lb pumpkin, courgettes, bottle gourd or carrots
silver leaf, chirongi nuts and watermelon seeds (available in Indian grocers), and red rose petals to garnish (optional)
1 tsp cardamom seeds, crushed
3 tbsp halved cashews, flaked almonds, and pistachio slivers, lightly toasted
1 tsp rosewater or screwpine essence (optional, but do not be tempted to add more)
8 tbsp sugar
1 tbsp sultanas
2 tbsp clarified (or unsalted) butter
550ml/1 pint milk